Since we moved but never had anything to entertain myself, I preferred to write and keep writing article about how we successfully moved to our new home. I was thinking how things might work here, since it looks like no direction inside our home. (Giggles) yeah, because it is still empty and almost everyday task to clean, put some fresh air which sometimes freaks me out because cold wind stays inside.
I got this really horrible day, probably because I was exhausted and I am the only one who almost does the cleaning task. Yeah, you read it correctly. I was cleaning the whole day. You probably are thinking that my husband was lazy. No he wasn’t, he was away trying to resolve things from the previous condo where we rented for one year. He has the meeting with the owner to close the contract, so he wasn’t able to help me clean up. So I encountered the whole day really horrible and exhausting.
I might say; be patient and more and more so you will not explode from everyday day cleaning. My husband kept asking me the questions starts with the words “Where is?” he can’t find anything and he immediately yell the words, “Honey, where is this and that, etc.” after few minutes, again same words, which makes my mood really bad, because I was so tired and I know that he was also tired, but I was glad I have bunches of patience inside mine. I still hold onto it, and I didn’t show him how moody I am. Still smile and give what he wants.
The main problem with my husband was, he tried to help me packing things but unfortunately he has bad memory and doesn’t remember where he put things like that and this. (Giggling) It was funny most of the time; because it was sweet the he was trying to help but can’t do anything with his memory. Well, I always need to find things when he can’t find it because he doesn’t have any patience to look for it. It happens every day here in our very own home. (Giggling)
I can’t help myself somehow, I needed to laugh and sometimes be a little moody. Maybe some woman out there will understand me how it really feels.
I can’t count how many times today my husband asked me those questions. Maybe 10 times or maybe more than that; he knew I have good memory so he felt too comfortable about asking things. Well, I am glad that I do have a good memory. At least one from us had, because I don’t know what will happen if we both have bad memories. Maybe we are not able to find even our underwear if that would happen. (Giggling)
I think it will be much less question the next day, because I will try to organize things and make sure that I will be putting them where my husband can easily find what he need.
So people out there, if you are newly moved in or ready to move in. Well I guess you must start warming up, and reserve more patience and energy because it would be harsh and fucking tough day!
TAKE NOTE: DO NOT FORGET TO SHOW LOVE, CARE, AND SMILE, NO MATTER HOW TOUGH YOUR DAY WAS. LOVE SHOULD REMAIN, UNDERSTANDING SHOULD MAINTAIN, SMILE TO GIVE AWAY!!!