I may not be like any other famous expert when it comes to relationship, but one thing I am sure about is that, I know the better and I know it can possibly best. They said there is no perfect relationship. It is really truly does!
Each one of us is meant to be with the right one, out there. Look around you, maybe he/she is just sitting or standing next to you. Luckily, I already find the right one for me, so I will not be able to search with you guys!!! (Giggling) but I surely will help you though.
I love you, is not just the words, which can easily came out to our mouth. It symbolizes love and affection to each other, and everyone desires to have someone to say that words to her/him. They said love is not about the words, it is about action and how you show someone that you love him/her. We have different opinion with that then, because for me everything matters when it comes to love. Words, action and anything that will define love are everything for me. It will be probably just non-sense or not even important to some people, but for me; for most of us, that words are not just words, but something we want, something we always desires.
I remember one situation before my husband and I got married. During the seminar (it should be done weeks before the wedding in the Philippines) my husband and I were sitting next to each other, with other couple who will also get married. A woman who was assigned to do the seminar asked everyone; “How many times a day you say I love you to your partner?” Whoops! Oh no, she started to asked each couple; some responded 3x a day, 2x a day, someone said “never”!
When it was my husband turns to answer the question he responded,
“Oh, I am telling that to her each 5 minutes”, then he looked at me, and smiled.
He wasn’t lying that time. He really often told me, the words “I love you”, of course the crowd were in shocked! I think nobody believed to what he responded, since he was the only foreign in the seminar, and everyone was Filipino like me. Well, I know the fact that he told them what was real, because I knew that by myself. A woman who was assigned to seminar, laughed and said,
“That is great; you should always say I love you to your partner, never let the day passed by without telling her what you feel about her”
Oh yeah, we both were proud! A woman turned back her attention to the couple who never say the words “I love you” to each other. Definitely weird, that they will get into serious commitment without saying I love you. Can you imagine that? Me? Oh no, I really can’t imagine how they came up to that situation without that words. Weird!
A woman asked them, “Do you love each other? What are the reason why you two, never said “I love you” to one another? “
Guess what? They never responded because they were so shy. When a woman told them to say “I love you” to one another on the spot, they really can’t. They were just smiling and like playing it like a game. Until the end of the seminar, woman convinced them to say that word, but unfortunately they did not!
My husband told me, “What was wrong with that couple, they were weird”. Absolutely weird! I actually don’t know exactly why? They probably are just type of person who never shows anyone what they feel about each other, which is not bad, but a bit weird.
What I am trying to say about this article is that; take your opportunity to say words “I love you”, because you never know until when you will have a chance to tell someone the words they deserve to hear. Every second counts, and that seconds always makes someone happy and alive. So better say it how many times you want, as much as you can. Never stop! Make them feel love and in return, you will be loved!